This post is dedicated to all of us, moms. Before I even start writing it, just wanted to clear it’s neither a feminist post nor do I intend to prove men any inferior. I myself have been taken care of, by my dad when I was young as my mom is a working woman and she was working in a different city back then, taking care of my younger sister who was just an year old or so. And so I have HUGE RESPECT for him, not just coz he’s my father but because taking care of such a small kid single handedly while taking care of his job would have not been easy.
As they say “God couldn’t be everywhere and so he created mothers”. Now when I am a mom of 3 years old hansome boy, I know being a mom isn’t easy and how much sacrifice a mom does for her kid. A mom is the one who carries the child for whole 9 months while sufferring from pregnancy’s issues – be it nausea, vomiting, dizziness and numerous others, goes through the unbearable pain of labor and then delivery, even before recovering from her own pain, starts taking care of the new life, goes through postpartum depression (many don’t even know there’s a real thing called postpartum depression), her body changes like anything due to pregnancy and delivery, and the list just goes on and on.
This image might look funny but we all, who have been there, know how painful it is. No matter how sick a mom is, she still would always be there, doing everything without even complaining.God also chose women to bear children for this very reason I am sure 😄 – and SO MUMS 😊
Coming back to the men, least you could do is helping out your partner in taking care of the child who she carried and delivered, only so he/she be known as “your child”. You can’t carry the child in your womb, but you can take care of your ailing wife, be faithful to her, be there for her.You can’t breastfeed the child but you can stay up calming the crying kid while the new mom who’s struggling with her own health could sleep for few hours. You can take care of the child when your wife is sick so she doesn’t struggle. There are numerous such small tasks that you NEED TO take care of.
I yearn to see more dads like mine 🙂 . Huge repect to the community of men who understand and help their wives with houlsehold chores or children !
Be good, KARMA pays off !
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